I understand how confusing it can be sometimes to figure out whether a woman is genuinely interested, in you or just leading you on. One day she seems passionate. The day she becomes distant. So how can you quickly determine if she truly wants a long term relationship, with you or if shes just wasting your time? Let me share a thought for you to ponder.
1. If she takes her time to respond to your messages or calls...
I understand that sometimes I can get really busy during the day and there are instances when I may not be able to pick up my phone for hours, on end. So if you happen to message me during those moments there's a chance that I won't be able to respond right away. There might even be times when I read your message but unintentionally forget to reply or indicate that I've seen it. Before jumping to conclusions and assuming that I'm not interested here's a good guideline; give it at 24 hours. If you reach out or say something and don't hear back, within 24 hours then it usually means that the person may not be as interested. Women can indeed have a lot going on. Be caught up in their activities but believe me as soon as they find a moment they'll eagerly look forward to hearing from you or receiving your call. If they happen to miss it they'll make sure to get to you promptly and let you know that they genuinely missed your call.
If she is interested she would like to receive a message from you within 24 hours. If it takes longer than that and you haven't heard from her it's likely that she's not interested.
2. If she frequently cancels plans it could be a Red flag.
For instance lets say you ask her out for dinner on Monday. She agrees, but then at the minute she tells you something came up. Then you suggest another date like dinner, on Wednesday or lunch on Wednesday. Again she agrees but then cancels due to some unexpected situation. If you notice this pattern repeating where every time you plan to hang out she becomes unavailable consistently it might indicate that she is not genuinely interested in spending time with you. In my opinion if someone is truly interested in seeing you they would be eager to make plans. Wouldn't constantly be too busy.
3. Another tip to consider is if she refers to you as a friend.
Let us say things were going well between the two of you and suddenly she starts acting distant or cold towards you without any reason. It can be quite puzzling at first. If during your interactions with her she consistently refers to you as a friend rather than showing romantic interest or using terms that imply a deeper connection it could indicate that her feelings have changed.
Remember these tips. Trust your instincts when it comes to dating. Don't settle for someone who doesn't prioritize spending time with you; instead find someone who genuinely wants to make time, for building a connection.
So imagine this scenario; You're dating a girl and she introduces you to her friends as a friend. It may seem confusing or disappointing. The truth is, it's not as complicated as it seems.
4. If she tells you that she's not ready for a relationship.
This means she wants to take things and see how they develop. Respect her decision. Believe what she says. Don't view it as a challenge to win her over; instead find someone who's ready for a relationship, with you because you deserve it.
5. You always have to be the one to initiate contact.
It's important for you to take the initiative in maintaining contact. Understand that some women might hesitate to reach out because they don't want to appear desperate or don't want to be the ones initiating conversations all the time. Sometimes they might even purposefully not call to see if you will make an effort and show your interest.
If for some reason she never takes the initiative to reach out first like when you go through your WhatsApp chats or call history and it's always you saying hello, morning, hi asking about her day, checking if she's okay or eaten. Well my friend it seems like you're investing a lot of time in someone who isn't reciprocating. It's clear she's not interested, in you. It might be better to move on and find a woman who truly values you.
6. When you try to escalate the situation she becomes evasive.
Let me explain how this works. For example if you compliment her on her appearance she dismisses it. If you express interest, in taking things to the level she simply laughs it off. Some women prefer not to be direct because they don't want to hurt your feelings. Instead they choose to downplay your remarks or not give them importance. Essentially they are subtly trying to convey that they only see you as a friend and nothing more. If this is the case pay attention. Move on because she is not interested, in pursuing anything
7. She ignores your messages without responding
She has this habit where you send her a message. She simply reads it without responding. Initially it's understandable since we all get busy and sometimes overlook messages due, to work or other distractions. Later in the day when she's relaxing in bed or at home with her legs up you would expect her to go through her chats and respond if she missed anything earlier. However this seems to be a pattern, for her. No matter what you try she takes days to reply after reading your messages. Honestly it's surprising that you're still waiting for attention in her chat. This behavior is a warning sign according to the girl's rulebook.
8. Here's another tip, for you; pay attention to the way she carries herself and her nonverbal cues.
You know I always believe that one of the ways to understand someones true feelings is, through their body language. Non verbal cues can provide a wealth of information that sometimes goes unnoticed in words. Let me give you an example; Imagine you meet a girl and try to establish a connection with her. She consistently pulls away from you. When you're sitting together and having a conversation her body language shows that she is physically distancing herself from you. If during the conversation she yawns or appears disengaged or worse starts checking guys text messages on her phone while talking to you, well it's quite clear that she's not interested in being, with you. So why waste your time? It's evident that either she finds the conversation dull or simply doesn't want to pursue anything with you. My advice? Move on. Find someone who appreciates your company of investing more time in this situation.
Conclusion
Here are some quick tips, for all the guys who might need a little help navigating relationships. Sometimes it's easy to see when a woman isn't interested so I hope these cues can save you from wasting time on someone who's not worth it. I genuinely wish you find love, with the person so if your partner displays any of these signs my advice would be to move on and find someone who truly values your time, effort, love and energy.