Listen I understand that you want to be someone who's easy to get along with. There are certain things that some people do that can come across as annoying. Let me give you an example of this.
1. Unsolicited advice
Unless you're, at the top of your game in a field like making millions or billions in business or being an incredibly fit individual most people might not be too interested, in hearing your advice. When someone randomly gives their opinion without being asked it can come off as irritating because others may think, "Who is this person? I've seen them struggle before or even ask for money to cover their Uber ride." That's the kind of response unsolicited advice tends to generate. Annoyance.
2. Lying about everything
There are individuals who have a tendency to be dishonest when it comes to trivial matters. It can be quite amusing because during conversations you may notice them stumble or hesitate before blurting out a lie. Most of the time these lies revolve around things, like their workout routines, income or the number of partners they've had. It's rather unpleasant when someone constantly fabricates falsehoods about anything and everything. The problem with being a liar is that people can easily pick up on these lies in conversation, which becomes irritating. You wouldn't want to spend time with someone like that because you've caught them in false claims. It would be better if they simply spoke the truth or refrained from boasting about aspects of their life they aren't proud of. Instead they should focus on staying true, to themselves. Let their actions speak for their character.
3. Not grooming
Many people fail to realize the speed at which others form judgments based on their appearance. The halo effect, a phenomenon plays a role in this process. It is worth studying to understand its impact. Essentially if someone initially perceives you negatively that perception colors their view of everything, about you. For instance if I were to meet you for the time and notice that you appear unkempt and have an odor these negative factors would influence how I interpret your words and actions. I may perceive you as creepy or unimpressive. On the other hand, if you present yourself as attractive and well groomed with a scent any subsequent interactions would be viewed in a positive light. People might assume that you are reserved, mature, intelligent or friendly even if those characteristics may not necessarily apply to your self. It's interesting how grooming can shape people's impressions of us.
4. You're eating like a pig
Hey it's important to understand that being overweight can put you at a disadvantage due, to biases, towards attractiveness. This is something that scientists and psychologists actively study so you can look it up for information. When someone is overweight people might automatically make assumptions about them not in terms of their appearance but also regarding the validity of their advice or opinions. Personally when I encounter someone who's overweight trying to offer me guidance I sometimes wonder if they struggle with self control or discipline themselves. It's a natural gut reaction that many people have when making judgments quickly. That's why it's crucial to take control of your diet and cultivate the discipline to exercise regularly.
5. Excessive substance abuse
It can be quite bothersome to be, in the company of individuals like this. There's always that one person with an alcohol problem who constantly encourages everyone to drink. Then there's the individual who constantly reeks of weed because they can't seem to quit. Let us not forget about the guy who is always vaping as if it's some sort of trend. It really gets on people's nerves when these types of individuals fail to realize that not everyone shares their habits. They push their behavior onto others whether it's vaping in front of everyone or constantly smelling like weed or being intoxicated around others. It just shows a lack of self control and naturally no one wants to be around someone, like that.
6. Your low self-esteem
Especially when it comes to women they don't want to deal with that kind of behavior my friend. Women are not here to support you just because you're feeling down. They expect more, from a man. They want someone who can take care of them match their ambitions or even lead them. That's what they truly desire. To make that happen you need to have confidence, in yourself and believe in your ability to overcome your challenges and obstacles.
7. You have no future potential
I've mentioned this repeatedly; when a woman rejects you or ends a relationship, with you she evaluates your life, your future and everything else. She comes to the conclusion that there's nothing promising about you. That's what bothers them. It's something for you to consider too. If women don't seem interested in you it means they don't see any potential in you. They look at both themselves and you. Think, "I'm not liking the future I see with this person." They essentially make a bet against you, my friend. Of getting angry at women for that realization get angry at yourself because if this keeps happening over again then it is clear that there is something, about yourself that needs fixing.